Safe Sex: The Sweetest Choice

Source: Naomi Adjei Tetteh

What’s better than raw sex? When it is with a trusted partner! When you look into each other’s eyes, knowing that you trust them completely with your body and your all. That they will always be there for you like they promised. That they will never do anything to put your health or your relationship in jeopardy. Awww, just the sweetest!

In the comfort and security of a committed relationship, safe sex practices might seem unnecessary, and in moments of passion, the idea of “raw sex” —unprotected intercourse — can hold a deceptive allure. It may signify intimacy, spontaneity, and a primal connection. However, before giving in to that allure, a critical look at the risk involved and a consideration for safe methods is necessary.

The facts are undeniable. While monogamy implies fidelity, unforeseen situations can arise. For instance, undisclosed past sexual encounters by either partner can introduce the risk of Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs). Many STIs like Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea are asymptomatic; this means they can be present without noticeable symptoms, while silently putting both partners at the risk of consequential health complications such as Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID), infertility, as well as several cancers like cervical, vaginal, and penile cancer.

Sure, there might be concerns about using protection in an exclusive relationship. After all, raw sex can feel more natural and enjoyable compared to protected sex. But here is the reality: looking out for each other’s health is a key part of a healthy relationship.  So, what can I do if I prefer to have unprotected sex in a monogamous relationship? Regular STI testing is key! STI testing, is a set of medical procedures used to detect the presence of STIs in your body. They could be through urine, swab or blood tests for HIV, hepatitis B and C, and syphilis. Testing is a sure way of detecting these viruses, parasites or bacteria that can go undetected if one wants to look for them through symptoms. Early detection will allow for prompt treatment which can prevent complications for yourself and your partner. Remember, STI testing isn’t a judgment but a normal and responsible part of maintaining good sexual health. It should be done regularly and not as a one-time fix. You could schedule a testing date with your partner and encourage honest and healthy communication about sexual health.

Ultimately, safe sex is not just about avoiding risks nor is it a reflection of distrust, it’s about demonstrating respect and concern for your partner’s well-being. Instead of a risky and potentially life-altering experience, it can become a symbol of responsible intimacy and mutual respect, leading to a truly fulfilling and safe sexual connection.